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C. GARY BARNES

Ph.D.
Licensed Psychologist

Gary Barnes is a licensed psychologist, specializing in marriage and family research, therapy, and training. He is also an ordained minister and a Professor of Biblical Counseling at Dallas Theological Seminary. After graduating from Dallas Theological Seminary, he served as an assistant pastor for seven years and then earned a Ph.D. in psychology at Columbia University. While in New York, he was a research project coordinator at NYU Medical Center's Family Studies Clinic. He later completed a two-year postdoctoral fellowship in Clinical Child Psychology through Parkland Hospital (Dallas) and the Child Guidance Clinics, followed by additional postdoctoral clinical training leading to certification as a Clinical Member of the American Board of Christian Sex Therapists.

Gary Barnes: Services

EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND

 

BS, Cornell University (1977);  

MS, Experiential Education, Minnesota State University (1978);  

ThM, Theology, Dallas Theological Seminary (1983); 

MEd, Teachers College, Columbia University (1991);

MPhil, Columbia University (1994); 

PhD, Columbia University (1995).

 

PROFESSIONAL LICENSES, CERTIFICATIONS, ORDINATIONS & MEMBERSHIPS

 

Licensed Psychologist by Texas State Board of Examiners of Psychologists; 

Registrant of National Register of Health Service Providers in Psychology; 

Certified Clinical Member of the American Board of Christian Sex Therapist

Diplomate – Sports Psychologist by National Institute of Sports, Psychology Division

Member of American Psychological Association; 

Member of APA - Division 36: Psychology of Religion; 

Member of APA - Division 43: Society for Couple and Family Psychology;

Member of Society of Personality Assessment; 

Member of Texas Psychological Association; 

Member of Dallas Psychological Association; 

Member of Christian Association for Psychological Studies; 

Christian Association for Psychological Studies, International Board Member  (2007-2013)

Sexual Wholeness, National Board Member (2014-Present)

Ordained Minister, Trinity Fellowship Church (1983)

Ordained Deacon in the Anglican Church North America (2/2015) 

Ordained Priest in the Anglican Church North America (5/2016)


 

PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE

 

Professor of Counseling, Dallas Theological Seminary (1997- present);

Clinical Psychology, Part-time Private Practice, Marriage & Family (1995-present)

Director of Institute for Sexual Wholeness (2023-present)

Gottman Institute, Level 3 Training, Gottman Method Couples Therapy (2018)

Consultant & Trainer, PREP Inc., University of Denver (1992-present);

Consultant & Trainer, PREPARE-ENRICH Inc., University of Minnesota (1992-present);

Psychologist, Southwestern Child & Family (1996-97); 

Post-Doctoral Fellowship, Clinical Child Psychology, Parkland Hospital/Dallas Child Guidance Clinic/Texoma Child Guidance Clinic (1994-96); 

Clinical Psychology Internship, Bellevue Hospital/NYU Medical Center (1993-94); 

Counselor, New Hope Counseling Center (1992-94);

Consultant & Trainer, Institute for Life Coping Skills, Columbia University (1991-97); 

Instructor in Counseling Psychology Department, Columbia University (1991-93); 

Assistant Pastor, Trinity Fellowship Church, Richardson Texas (1984-90);

Community Development & Research, The STEP Foundation (1982-84);

 

PROFESSIONAL PRESENTATIONS

 

American Association for Christian Counseling, Regional Conference

April 2008 – “Transforming Marital Sexuality”

March 2004 – “A Structured Model: Communication & Conflict Resolution for Couples with ADHD.”

March 2004 – “A Collaborative Model: Pastoral & Clinical Interventions for Compulsive Behaviors”

 

American Psychological Association, National Convention 

August 2015- “Attitudes towards, comfort level, and experiences with sexual minority               

disclosures: A survey of Christian ministers” Poster Presentation by

Yarhouse, M. A., Bucher, E., Zaporozhets, O., & Barnes, G.

 

Anglican Church of North America: C4SO Diocese Annual Conference

January 2017- “Sexual Integrity for Clergy: Statistics, Personal & Professional” 

 

Association for Couples in Marriage Enrichment, International Conference 

July 2004 - “PREP Training” 3 day (Prevention & Relationship Enhancement 

Program)

 

Christian Association for Psychological Studies, National Conference

March 2023    “Ethical Practices with Sexual Minorities: Psyhological & Theological Standards”
1 hr. Workshop

March 2020.   “Interplay of Identity & Intimacy” 1 hr. Workshop

March 2019 “Sexual Desire Discrepancy” 1 hr. Workshop 

April 2018 “Interplay of Identity & Intimacy” 1 hr. Workshop

April 2017 “Sexuality, Diversity, Religiosity & Ethics: Professional Practice

For Challenging Times”  3 hr. Pre-Conference Training

April 2017 “Sexuality, Diversity, Religiosity & Ethics” 1 hr. Workshop

April 2015 “Church Ministers and Sexual Minorities: A National Survey”

April 2014 “Sexual Identity and the Church”

April 2013 “Growing-Up Sexually: Cutting Sexual Brokenness Off at the Pass”

April 2011   “A Celebration of Sex:  A Model for Teaching Creative Marital 

                    Intimacy” 3 hr. Pre-Conference Training     

April 2011   “The Collaboration of Church, Pastors, Clinicians & Academics in the   Process of Theological & Psychological Integration for Applications of Spiritual Formation” 2 hr. Symposium

April 2011   “Extramarital Affairs: Current Research, Therapeutic Understandings and Client Interventions”

April 2010   “Prepare/Enrich Certification” 6 hr. Pre-Conference Training 

April 2010 “Cultivating a Sexually Healthy Church”

April 2009   “Prepare/Enrich Certification” 6 hr. Pre-Conference Training

April 2009   “Deepening Sexual Intimacy Through the Stages of Marriage” Invited Symposium

April 2008   “Marriage is for Lovers”

April 2008 “Sexual Ethics”

April 2008 “Family of Origin & Current Couple Relationships’ Influence on Spiritual Relationality”

March 2007  “Transforming Marital Sexuality”

April 2006    (Poster accepted) “Forced Termination in Ministry: Research Findings & Prevention” 

April 2005    “Foundational Skills of Sex Therapy: the DEC-R Model”

 

Christian Association for Psychological Studies, Regional Conference – Dallas

“Religious Coping: Healthy & Unhealthy Ways of Being Religious”

 

National Conference by the Coalition for Marriage, Family and Couples Education 

Smart Marriages Annual Conferences

July 2006  “Sexual Intimacy: the PREP approach”

July 2006 Annual Training for CPREP (Christian Prevention and Relationship

Enhancement Program: 3 day training)

July 2005 Annual Training for CPREP (Christian Prevention and Relationship

Enhancement Program: 3 day training)

July 2004 Annual Training for CPREP (Christian Prevention and Relationship

Enhancement Program: 3 day training)

July 2003 Annual Training for CPREP (Christian Prevention and Relationship

Enhancement Program: 3 day training)

July 2002 Annual Training for CPREP (Christian Prevention and Relationship

Enhancement Program: 3 day training)

July 2001 Annual Training for CPREP (Christian Prevention and Relationship

Enhancement Program: 3 day training)

 

Texas Psychological Association, Annual State Conference

October 2001 “Domestic Violence:  Judeo-Christian Religious Beliefs and Behaviors” 

 

PROFESSIONAL PUBLICATIONS

 

Glahn S. & Barnes, G. (Eds.) (2020). Sanctified Sexuality: Valuing Sex in an Oversexed World. Grand Rapids, MI: Kregel. 

Barnes, G. (2020). “Divorce: A Research Based Perspective.” Chapter contribution in Sanctified Sexuality: Valuing Sex in an Oversexed World. Edited by Glahn, S. & Barnes, G.  Grand Rapids, MI: Kregel.

Barnes, G. (2020). “Personal and Interpersonal Sexual Ethics.” Chapter contribution in Sanctified Sexuality: Valuing Sex in an Oversexed World. Edited by Glahn, S. & Barnes, G.  Grand Rapids, MI: Kregel.

Barnes, G., & Rosenau, D. (2023). “3-D Soul Sexuality and Heart Attitudes” Chapter contribution in Single and Sexually Whole. Rosenau, D. Atlanta, GA: Sexual Wholeness Resources.

Barnes, G., & Rosenau, D. (2023). “Living Boldly from Your Heart – An Inside-Out Lifestyle” Chapter contribution in Single and Sexually Whole. Rosenau, D. Atlanta, GA: Sexual Wholeness Resources.

Barnes, G., & Bock, D. (2015).  “Five Myths and Truths in Loneliness.”  The Gospel Coalition.

 

Barnes, G., & Stanley, S. (2013). “Christian PREP:  The Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program.”  Chapter contribution in Evidence Based Practices in Christian Counseling, Edited by Worthington, E. An Intervarsity-Christian Association for Psychological Studies Partnership Book. 

 

Barnes, G., & Stanley, S. (2006). “Christian PREP:  The Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program.”  Marriage & Family: A Christian Journal. Vol. 7, 63-76.

 

Barnes, G., & Stanley, S. (2004).  “A Marriage Made in Heaven:  How the Significance of Marriage Can be Taught.” Issues in Christian Education, 38 (3), 20-25.

 

Barnes, G., “Stopping the Burnout Progression.”  The Commentary: Association of Evangelical Ministers Quarterly, Winter 2002, Vol. 1, No. 3.

 

Barnes, G., “Use Conflict as a Catalyst: Communication in Marriage.”  Kindred Spirit, Summer 1999 Vol. 23, No. 2.

 

Barnes, G., “Can Biblical Counseling and Psychological Counseling Somehow Fit Together?” Kindred Spirit, Winter 1998 Vol. 22, No. 4.

Barnes, G., “The Role of Religious Beliefs, Non-Religious Beliefs and Psychosocial Competencies in the Occurrence of Depressive Symptoms.” Unpublished Doctoral Dissertation, 1995.

Yarhouse, M., Zaporozhets, O., Ferrell, S., Sides, J., Bucher, E., & Barnes, G., (2018). “Pastors' Experiences with Attitudes Towards Persons Who Experience Same Sex Attraction in the Church.” Chapter contribution in Understanding Sexuality: Perspectives & Challenges of the 21st Century. Edited by Enok, O. & Rolf, J., New York, NY: Nova Science Publishers, Inc.

     

 

DOCUMENTARY

 

Neale, Kurt & Barnes, Gary, Co-producers (2014). “Compelling Love & Sexual Identity” is a thought-provoking and moving feature-length documentary film with study guides.  www.compellinglovefilm.com



 

PODCASTS & PRESENTATIONS

 

August 21, 2024 "Sexual Identity & Gender Identity" Park Cities Baptist Church, Dallas, TX 

 

April 4, 2024 "Sexual Identity & Gender Identity" Northwest Bible Church, Dallas, TX   

 

April 4, 2024 “Sexual Addictions” DTS Couch, Dallas, TX   

 

March 24, 2024 "Single Sexuality" Park Cities Baptist Church, Dallas, TX   

 

March 6, 2024 "Unity & Sex in Marriage" Park Cities Baptist Church, Dallas, TX  

 

February 11, 2024 "LGBTQ+ Encounters" New Gospel Life Church, Lewisville, TX 

 

January 23, 2024 "Spiritual Formation & Relationships" DTS Spiritual Life Conference, Dallas, TX  

 

October 29, 2023 "Sexual Identity & Gender Identity" New Gospel Life Church, Lewisville, TX

 

October 10, 2023 "Sex Therapy Certification Training" Richmont Graduate University, Atlanta

 

September 30, 2023 “Sexual Wholeness and Christianity” SMU, UNT, TWU, UTD, DBU:

5 University Retreat Workshop sponsored by CRU. 

 

April 4, 2023, “Mental Health and Christianity” SMU CRU sponsored presentation.

 

March 29, 2023, “Theological & Psychological Foundations for Marital Sexuality” Park Cities

Baptist Church presentation.

 

October 28, 2022, “Deep Light” podcast ministry of Park Cities Presbyterian Church, Dallas, TX

“Sex: God’s Gift”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjCcE-kqUQM

 

October 27, 2022 “LGBTQ+ Issues and Religious Liberties” SMU sponsored panel discussion.

 

August 5-6, 2022, “Critical Conversations on Sexuality and Identity” Dallas Theological Seminary  

& Christian Medical & Dental Association Annual Conference, Dallas, TX

 

Plenary: “Compelling Love

 

Workshop: “Sexual Identity & Gender Identity

 

June 1, 2021, "Predictors of Relationship Outcomes" Texas Real Estate Commission/Mike Mazyck

Realty, Rockwall, TX. 

 

April 6, 2021, "Sexual Identity & Gender Identity" Fellowship Church Dallas, Dallas, TX. 

 

January 15, 2021, “Sanctified Sexuality: Sexual Identity, Gender Identity, Cohabitation, Divorce” 

-KCBI Mornings with Rebecca & Burns

Barnes, G., Carrell, R & Rodriguez, L

https://www.kcbi.org/what-the-bible-says-about-gender-roles/

 

December 28, 2020, “Single Sexuality” – Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Rosenau, D.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/sexuality-and-ethics/

 

December 8, 2020, “Sanctified Sexuality: Gender & The Slippery Slope ” 

– Youth Ministry Maverick. Barnes, G., Glahn, S., & Harding, J.

https://youthministrymaverick.com/episode-31-sanctified-sexuality/

 

August 24, 2020, “Sanctified Sexuality” – The Remedy. Barnes, G., & Sido, T.

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-remedy-with-tova-sido/id1402329355#episodeGuid=http%3A%2F%2Fawscdn.podcasts.com%2FEpisode-113-Sanctified-Sexuality-with-Dr.-Barnes-3038.mp3

 

July 30, 2020, “Sanctified Sexuality: Divorce & Sexual Ethics” – Point of View Livecast.

Barnes, Gary  & Anderson, Kirby

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e31tzX8ARUk&feature=youtu.be

 

February 11, 2020, “A Healthy Approach to Sexual Attraction” – Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Wade, D.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/healthy-approach-to-sexual-attraction/

 

November 12, 2019, “Understanding Gender Dysohoria” (part 2) – Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Yoder, T.

            https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/transgender-issues/

 

November 5, 2019, “Understanding Gender Dysohoria” (part 1) – Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Yoder, T.

            https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/gender-dysphoria/

 

November 4, 2019, “Cohabitation”- The Remedy. Barnes, G., & Sido, T.

https://www.podcasts.com/the-remedy-with-tova-sido--44d9ee608/episode/Episode-72-     Cohabitation-with-Dr.-Barnes-530d

 

October 28, 2019, “Reconciling”- The Remedy. Barnes, G., & Sido, T.

https://www.podcasts.com/the-remedy-with-tova-sido--44d9ee608/episode/Episode-71-Reconciling-with-Dr.-Barnes-be22

 

August 4, 2019, “Communication and Outcomes of Stability and Satisfaction in Relationships” 

-The Remedy. Barnes, G., & Sido, T.

https://www.podcasts.com/the-remedy-with-tova-sido--44d9ee608/episode/Episode-61-Communication-with-Dr.-Gary-Barnes-f37f

 

July 28, 2019, “Faith in Relationships” -The Remedy. Barnes, G., & Sido, T.

https://www.podcasts.com/the-remedy-with-tova-sido--44d9ee608/episode/Episode-60-Faith-in-Relationships-with-Dr.-Gary-Barnes-4579

 

July 7, 2019, “Secrets to a Successful Relationship” -The Remedy. Barnes, G., & Sido, T.

https://www.podcasts.com/the-remedy-with-tova-sido--44d9ee608/episode/Episode-57-Secrets-to-a-Successful-Relationship-with-Dr.-Barnes-e523

 

April 2, 2019, “Beginning Difficult Conversations” – Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Woody, M.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/difficult-conversation/

 

September 7, 2018, “Cultural Engagement: Difficult Conversations -Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Miller, W.

https://voice.dts.edu/chapel/cultural-engagement-difficult-conversations/ 

 

May 19, 2016, “A Conversation about Gender Dysphoria” – Chase Oaks Church.

Barnes, G., Holmes, G., & Tran, L.

https://vimeo.com/166822751

 

September 18, 2014, “Compelling Love” - Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G.

https://voice.dts.edu/chapel/compelling-love-barnes-c-gary/

 

August 5, 2014, “Ministering to People with Sexual Issues” - Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Wade, D.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/ministering-to-people-sexual-issues/

 

July 29, 2014, “A Biblical View of Sexual Intimacy” – Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Bock, D., & Wade, D.

http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/biblical-view-sexual-intimacy/

 

July 22, 2014, “Ministering to People with Sexual Identity” - Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Yarhouse, M. & Bock, D.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/ministering-to-people-wrestling-sexual-identity/

 

July 15, 2014, “Engaging with LGBT Persons” - Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Yarhouse, M. & Bock, D.

http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/engaging-lgbt-persons/

 

September 10, 2013, “Divorce, Redemption and Spousal Abuse” - Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Wade, D. & Bock, D.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/are-there-biblical-grounds-for-divorce/

 

September 3, 2013, “A Christian Response to Abusive Relationships” - Dallas Theological 

Seminary.

Barnes, G., Wade, D. & Bock, D.

http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/christian-response-to-abusive-relationships/

 

August 13, 2013, “How do I Talk to my Teen about Sex?” - Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Dickens, C., Wade, D. & Bock, D.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/how-do-i-talk-teen-about-sex/

 

August 6, 2013, “Raising Children in a Sex Saturated Society” - Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G., Dickens, C., Wade, D. & Bock, D.

https://voice.dts.edu/tablepodcast/raising-children-sex-saturated-society/

 

May 3, 2012, “Self-Esteem Problems and Gospel Freedom”- Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G.

https://voice.dts.edu/chapel/self-esteem-problems-and-gospel-freedom-barnes-c-gary/

 

February 7, 2012, “Homosexuality and the Church” – SMU Religious Studies sponsored dialogue.

 

May 12, 2010, “The Gospel”- Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G.

https://voice.dts.edu/chapel/the-gospel-c-gary-barnes/

 

June 18, 2008, “Driven by Love or Lust”- Dallas Theological Seminary.

Barnes, G.

https://voice.dts.edu/chapel/driven-by-love-or-lust-c-gary-barnes/


 

COURSES Taught at Dallas Theological Seminary:

  • CM5101 - Pastoral Counseling

  • CM5102 - Theological and Psychological Foundations

  • CM5235 - Social and Cultural Foundations

  • CM5245 - Appraisal and Assessment Techniques

  • CM5270 – Family Systems

  • CM5280 - Group Counseling

  • CM5300 – Professional Skills & Ethics

  • CM5330 – International Counseling Prtacticum

  • CM5420 - Premarital Counseling

  • CM5422 - Marital Counseling

  • CM5424 - Marital Enrichment

  • CM5605 - Human Sexuality

  • CM5610 – Sexuality & Ethics

  • CM5615 – Basic Issues in Sex Therapy

  • CM5505-  Family Research & Assessment

  • CM5621 - Sexual Educator Certification I

  • CM5701 - Chaplaincy Orientation and Issues

  • DM7103 - The Applied Research Project

  • DM7635 - Marriage and Family Ministry 

  • DM7605 - Selected Topics of Nurture Issues in Today's Ministry

  • DM7615 - Advanced Pastoral Psychology and Counseling

  • DM7640 - Human Sexuality

  • DM7645 - Biblical Conflict Resolution I

  • DM7646 - Biblical Conflict Resolution II

  • DM7647 - Biblical Conflict Resolution III

  • DM7660 - Marriage and Family Ministry Cohort, Seminar 2

  • DE7356  - Marriage and Family Ministry Cohort, Seminar 2

 

SPORTS PSYCHOLOGY RESEARCH 

Research

University of California Davis Medical School, Data Collection through Blood Testing during RAAM: Race Across America, 3,050 mile Ultra-Cycle Race, 2006.

The Cooper Institute of Research for Health and Wellness, Dallas Texas, Data Collection through Power Meter Cycling Computers, Measuring Power Wattage throughout RAAM: Race Across America, 3,050 mile Ultra-Cycle Race, 2006-2007.

 

FAMILY

 

Wife, Cathy; children: Tyler (1980), Rylan (1981), Cassie (1983), Charis (1985); grandchildren: 10

Gary Barnes: About Me

CONTACT

gbarnes@dts.edu 

o: 214-265-1400

f: 214-265-1425


Gary Barnes: Opening Hours
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